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Self-love and self-worth

If there’s one thing I wish we taught in school to all children, it’s the importance of valuing ourselves, and being the love of our own lives. Instead we have a mental and emotional pandemic of thinking we have little worth or value. Most of us learn (from those around …

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Transformation

My whole life, I’ve been fascinated by transformation Alchemy. The ability for one thing to become something else. It’s part of the reason that magic has always been important to me. And I suspect it has a lot to do with my love of the vampire genre. The journey of …

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Sabotage patterns

Have you ever found yourself wanting to create change in your life but it just never seems to happen? For example, you start an exercise program only to injure yourself and you lose all your momentum. There are so many ways this can happen. It might impact changes you’d like …

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Acupressure to diffuse shock and overwhelm

As if 2020 wasn’t enough, this year had barely begun when America had a violent riot in their capital city. The impact of which has definitely been felt by the many people around the world as well as all Americans. Add to that the ongoing uncertainty of the pandemic spread, …

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Conflation of ideas

Have you heard of the term conflation? It’s defined as: “the merging of two or more sets of information, texts, ideas, etc. into one.” Collectively this is one of our biggest problems The assumption that information means something that it does not. The main cause of this is fear, and …

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Speaking up and trauma

I had my very last client for the year last night (a distance session). We worked with the theme of being safe to speak up. Because many of us – myself included – grew up in an environment where it was NOT safe to say what was really going on. …

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Chronic illness

Last week I reached out to someone who almost adopted one of my foster cats, when I saw they’d posted about the beginning of their journey with chronic illness. My heart goes out to anyone walking that pathway, with its confusion and overwhelm. It can be a clusterf*ck of symptoms, …

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Unpacking the expansion of Kundalini

Linear time isn’t the easiest thing for me to relate to anymore, but it seems to be about four years since the fierce vibrancy of Ma Kundalini blew all the way through my physical form! I can look up the date in reference to other things that occurred around the …

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The impact of unhealed trauma in the workplace

Every now and then I’m reminded of my experience many years ago, of living with unhealed trauma and trying to hold down a demanding job at the same time. It’s not uncommon to find people living with trauma who are unaware of what they’re going through. Unhealed trauma can look …

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Empath checkpoints for Red Flag Days

I thought I’d share this meme I created because this is how I work through what might be going on for me on those days when I’m feeling super highly sensitive!  I call them Red Flag Days, because no matter what I do, sometimes I find myself in a heightened …